1. “What is something you have tried, but will never do again?” – This
is an intriguing question that will get her thinking and you will discover how
wild or daring she really is. Perhaps both of you have had the same experience
that will bring you closer together.
2. “What quirky habit do you have?” – Quirky habits are something that
we all have. This is something that will get her to open up to you and let down
her guard! This is a great way to make her feel just a little more comfortable
with you.
3. “Who is your best friend?” – Best friends must like you if the
relationship will ever have a chance of working out. By knowing who her best
friend is, you will be able to make a good first impression and will be able to
ask more questions about them. What are they like? How did they meet?
4. “What is one thing you wish you could undo from your past?” –
Mistakes are very difficult to understand and admit. If she tells you one thing
she could undo that she did in the past, this will definitely bring the two of
you closer together.
5. “What is your biggest fear?” – Fears are horrible, but they allow you
to really get to know a person. Knowing her biggest fear means you can further
protect her and know her better emotionally.
6. “What is one place in the
world you wish you lived?” – A fun question to ask. Most people have places
they wish they could live, but they never have the chance to actually live
there.
By discovering her one special place, you can use this as inspiration
for a future vacation, or at least know a little bit more about her aspirations
and dreams.
7. “Would you rather be loved or have money?” – Love or money? As a man,
you better hope she says “be loved” because if she says “have money”, this may
be a sign that she is a gold digger.
8. “What is your favorite
childhood memory?” – Memories of the past are always a great way to get to know
a person. Everyone has a childhood memory that really makes them smile and
happy. By getting to know her memories, you will be able to know exactly what part
of her life was the most special!
9. “What is your most embarrassing moment?” – Embarrassing moments are
something we can look back on and laugh. This is an awesome question because it
will make her laugh, smile or even cry.
10. “What would your dream date be?” – This has its obvious benefits. If
you know her dream date, you can create it for her leaving you to be
Casanova.
11. “What would you change about yourself?” – No one is fully content
with themselves. Knowing her one insecurity allows you to be deeply connected
with her.
12. “Who has influenced you most in your life?” – Life influences are
great to know because they can tell you a lot about a person. If she has been
influenced by Kim Kardashian, you will know that she wants to live the high life
and be the center of attention. However, if her hard-working mother was an
influence, this can tell you a lot about her.
13. “What is something you used to do as a child that you wish you could
still do?” – There is always something that anyone misses about their
childhood. For instance, I miss being able to eat pizza and stay up all night
trying to catch Santa Clause coming down the chimney. You are never too old to
do these things, and recognizing what she misses enable you to bring it to life
for just one day.
14. “What is the worst thing about dating?” – Some people have
commitment issues and others are insecure. If you plan on dating her seriously,
this can be used to ensure that you have a long-lasting relationship.
15. “What is one career you would love to enter?” – Life dreams,
aspirations and career choices are good things to know. This is a general
question, but a good one to ask when she gets quiet.
16. “Are you close with your family?” – Is she close with her family?
This is a tricky question because she may have the picture perfect family, or
she may have one that is completely insane, on drugs or suffers from substance
abuse. Knowing if she is close with her beloved ones gives you a better
understanding of what to expect if you ever meet them.
17. “What is one movie that influenced your life the most?” – Movies
always have a way of influencing our lives. If her favorite movie is The
Notebook, you will know she is a romantic. However, if she says something like
Mean Girls, you know that it takes very little to influence her and that she
may not be as deep of a person as you had hoped.
18. “Where is the one place in the world you feel most safe?” – Feeling
safe is something every girl wants. Her safe place is sacred and can be
anything from the ocean to the house that she grew up in.
19. “What is the one thing you want to experience before you die?” – A
bucket list is something that every individual has. Knowing what she wants to
do just once in her life is a great way to really get to know her. You can also
use this to your advantage if you want to plan a surprise for her and make her
dreams come true.
20. “What is your ultimate goal in life?” – The end-all question. This
is something that allows you to know her aspirations but also enables you to
understand the person you are with. If her ultimate goal is to own a Bentley or
meet a famous girl or dude, you might want to get out of dodge. Long-term
relationships require the both of you to share a common life goal and if you
don’t, your relationship will probably fail.
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