Men all around the world have sought for answers and are
keen to finding it when it comes to the topic giving your woman an orgasm.
While much information flies around on the internet relating
this topic experiences have shown that most of this information is considered
by many as either time wasting or to difficult to perform...
While some have resorted to giving up I urge you to read
this because you are on your way to finding what I call the “road to the stream
of giving your woman multiple successive orgasm”
All
that I’ve
had men ask me to write about my methods on how to make a
girl orgasm since 2007, when I first mentioned the results I
get with sex online… and I’ve always declined to write them.
But
sex… that’s an experience. And I’ve somewhat jealously guarded
how to create the kind of experience I like creating for women through
sex.
My
goals with sex were the same as my goals with seduction: sex to me should be
1.
Powerfully effective,
2.
Efficient to execute, and
3. Easy to do
Once
I started working on getting sex down as a skill, I was able to
give girls relatively hard orgasms within 10 or 15 minutes,
on average. I gradually cut this down to about 5 to 10
minutes or so. And
right away, I was stacking powerful multiple orgasms from
penetrative vaginal sex, one after another – the holy grail of sex performance for most men.
All
those other guys out there were talking about giving girls orgasms
with their hands or mouths… I laughed at that. I was giving them orgasms with ME.
And I
didn’t want to talk about it… because sex is the great differentiator.
If everybody else knows how to do what I know how to do in the sack,
well, all those rip-roaring orgasms I just gave her aren’t really anything special…
she can go get that from anybody. But what I’ve realized over the
years is, no matter how clear you make something for someone, no matter how simply you
present it to him… if it requires even a little bit of work, most men
are unlikely to ever use it. If you use these techniques with the women you sleep
with, it will
change sex, women, and relationships for you forever. But most
men are never going to bother. So, fears of getting out-competed by men using my own
techniques
against me set aside, I’m going to share with you how you can make girls orgasm
hard, fast, and multiple times,
using nothing but your member – and a little bit of work. I usually
like to start off articles like this with some theory, so that
you understand a) WHY we’re doing things a certain way, and
not another way, and b) how to improve on them yourself, and how to change
courses and improvise on the fly when you find yourself in novel situations I
haven’t discussed in an article. With a good grasp of the theory, you wind up not
needing a whole
lot else.
So
here’s what you need to understand about sex that virtually
nobody tells you (because virtually nobody is aware) and that makes all the difference
between being okay at sex and being rock star good in bed.
Sex Fundamentals Just like attractiveness and seduction have certain underlying
fundamentals that – if you’re hitting these notes right –
make these things a breeze, so too does sex. Most of the sex fundamentals I
learned as a teenager without
ever having sex. At the time, I was trapped by my own
social phobia without friends and without girlfriends or lovers,
and I figured if I ever got a girl I really liked, then I REALLY
wanted to make sure she didn’t ever want to leave. One of
the keys to this, I knew, was sex. More specifically, giving girl
orgasms. Lots of orgasms. I heard a lot of things growing up, about how sex is something
you’re supposed to work through or talk about with your partner or whatnot,
and it’s important, but the bond between too people is more important. I never
put much
credence in the things people say though, and from what I
could tell from looking at people actual
Relationships, sex seemed to be all-important. In fact, it
seemed to be THE most important thing there was. A woman could HATE a guy… but if
he gave her incredible sex,
she’d keep coming back for more.
Or,
she might think a guy was the most wonderful fellow in the
world… but if he couldn’t perform, she’d soon be gone, off in
the arms of another man who could. So, I studied. I needed to be
not just good at sex, but incredible at it, as soon as I got going. I wanted
to land on my feet as quickly as possible.
I
learned how to give women orgasms manually, orally, and anally. I
learned these so well, in fact, that the first time I ever gave
a girl oral sex, she orgasm quickly, and angrily called me a liar for telling her
I was inexperienced. She never believed me that I’d never done it before, and never really
trusted
me after that “lie.” I told her I’d just watched a video on giving
oral sex; she told me no one gets that good from watching a video. But most
of all, I studied how to give women orgasms vaginally.
The
stuff I was reading about the “G-spot” was a bit too complicated
for me… I couldn’t really figure out where it was or what
to do with it (in fact, I’ve never really sat down to figure
this out… Ricardus talks about it fairly in-depth in his article
on how to be a good lover , though, and it does seem to be pretty
useful). I
eventually decided that, based on everything I’d studied and read,
these were the fundamentals of sex:
1.
Passion is key. Sex is every bit as much a mental and
emotional experience as it is a physical one.
Women
had the most exciting, fulfilling experiences with passionate
men… and by nature, I am one of the most dispassionate individuals you
will meet. I knew I needed to simulate passion, and eventually learn it for real.
2.
Physical contact is best maximized. Another thing I
suspected was extremely important was maximizing physical contact
– getting your skin contacting as much of her skin as possible. This
makes the sex much more personal, and much less clinical, and increases the
Release of pleasure and bonding hormones that occurs with skin
contact between a man and a woman.
3.
You need both clitoral and vaginal stimulation. What I was reading again and again and
again was that
Women
wished more men would stimulate their clitoris during sex, and so many men were
ignorant of this. Yet, the clitoris was outside and above the vagina… and I didn’t
want to be just using my hand or my mouth, because
4.
Penetrative sex is REAL sex. Just like she’s not really your girlfriend if you’re not
having sex with her,
It’s
not really sex if your penis isn’t in her. Women know this, and
while they enjoy men who give them orgasms with other parts of their bodies
– tongues, fingers, hands,
sex toys – these men aren’t real men the way men who make women cum with
their penises are. If you
want to maintain a woman’s respect and attraction at the
uppermost levels – and in my mind, that’s the #1 reason to bother giving her
orgasms at all in the first place – you need to be making her cum with your penis, not your
tongue / fingers.
5.
Rhythm is non-negotiable. Hidden deep within the tomes I was reading on sex, I
discovered an emphasis on
rhythm that seemed largely devoid from much of the lighter
and more mainstream sex advice stuff I perused. Rhythm was why women found men
who danced well sexy
and suspected they’d be good in bed – and it was also why once a girl went black
she didn’t go back. Black
men – on average – had rhythm; white men – on average – did not. I further
learned that women enter a trance-like state during good, rhythmic sex that is necessary
for and precedes orgasm. The men shifting around and thrusting arrhythmic
ally prevent women from
ever entering this trance – and prevent them from ever
climaxing, too.
6.
Dominance is mandatory. Women want to be taken… not asked. I learned that asking
her, “Is this
okay?”
or, “Was that good for you?” are big no-no’s that make you
seem inexperienced and like you don’t know what you’re doing. A woman wants
to feel like you know
her body better than she does, and know what’s best for her better than she does…
she wants to be able to
just relax, enjoy the ride, and let you do what you know how
to do so well without having to worry or think about anything other than how
good it feels and how good
you are. You must know what you’re doing, and tell her what to do / move her
around dominantly and confidently and self-assuredly. There were other things I found
that were useful and important,
like using your voice during sex, and doing things like
gripping and pulling her hair (when behind her), smacking her butt, etc. I also
read about how important foreplay was – but I didn’t consider
that a fundamental, because my belief was that if you’re
incredible at penetrative sex, once you get there she’ll be
having so much pleasure she’s not going to care if you
didn’t tease her for 15 minutes first. I do use foreplay – sometimes –
if I want to build up a girl’s anticipation and get her Cumming faster and harder
than she would
without it. But
it’s certainly not mandatory. If you know what you’re doing in
bed, you can go in with no foreplay and still have her Cumming hard in
minutes.
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